

Visualisation is a big part of mindfulness. It helps you take your mind off trying to control the physiological process of birth or what your care providers are helping you with, stopping your body from tensing up and feeling the pain that comes with that physical tension. But can visualisation also help to ‘achieve’ the birth that you want? Well, our Reticular Activating System could be the facilitator of the ‘If you can dream it, you can do it’ thought process.
We all have a Reticular Activating System (RAS). This is a bundle of nerves at the brainstem that filters out unnecessary information so the important stuff gets through. You could think of it as our personal information organiser.
When we consciously focus on something, we trigger the RAS to look for things associated with that subject or theme.
Think about when you scan a long list for your name; you can exclude other names without really having to absorb them. Or when the news on comes the radio that you want to listen to, you might not have been listening intently before, but as soon as the music comes on, your RAS tells you that this is what you want to pay attention to.
The RAS works without you having to do anything; the process is effortless. It only focuses on information that it believes is important to you.
So, if having a calm and positive birth experience is important to you (I think if you’re reading this, it probably is!), why would you focus on anything else? This handy little system takes your beliefs and wants and looks for information that will help you live within those parameters. So as another example, if you believe you are a terrible cook – you probably will be. It influences your actions, so your motivation to be a good cook will be diminished if you feel there is no hope. On the other hand, if you believe you CAN be a good cook – your RAS system will help you find ways to help this process and filter out any negativity that it knows will hinder you.
Well, think of it as re-programming your belief system to send the right signals to your RAS. When we first meet them, 99% of our Mindful Birth clients viewed birth as scary, painful, and something they needed to ‘get through’. So what do you think these beliefs make their RAS do? Yep, they encourage it to seek more information to confirm these beliefs. It wants to constantly reaffirm this negative narrative. So our job as Mindful Birth teachers is to change that (untrue) narrative and use visualisation to encourage the RAS to seek out the true positives about birth.
Put simply, your RAS influences the world you see around you.
As we just said, the RAS influences the world you see around you. If you genuinely believe that birth will be an awful experience, then we’re sorry to say, it may well be. But, if you can educate yourself to understand what the process actually entails (and trust that your body and care providers know exactly what to do), extinguish this fear of the unknown, and look forward to what is going to be the most life-changing and incredible time in your life (aka meeting your baby!), then your RAS will look to reaffirm these beliefs.
You can do this at any moment in the birth process – it could be visualising the room you are in as you go through the stages of labour. It could be the moment you are birthing your baby. Practice this visualisation daily, even if for only a few minutes.
If you can practice visualising your birth as the beautiful, calm and magic time it will be, you will be giving your subconscious and conscious permission to work together to make it happen.
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